Writing

Building in public — agency life, AI workflows, weekly wins, and monthly life recaps from Kota Kinabalu.

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April 2026 — Life Recap

Birthday month, Qing Ming with mum, pool days with the kids, new cafes, and a hat I borrowed from my mum. Notes from a quiet April in Kota Kinabalu.

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WhatsApp Is Eating Me Alive. Starting Today, I'm Killing It Until Noon.

I wake up at 5am. By 6:31am, WhatsApp owns the rest of my day. Why I'm switching off WhatsApp until noon, starting today.

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August 2025 — Life Recap

Kali training, Danny's 8th birthday, beer sessions with friends, and the quiet realisation that we are all really ageing.

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The Missing Thing for a Perfect Sunset

A radio host was talking about what makes a perfect sunset. I thought I knew the answer. My wife knew better.

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The Day My Daughter Stole Something From Me

My 6-year-old asked me a simple question about stealing. My answer surprised both of us.

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The Hourly Check-In That Changed Everything

I used to be overwhelmed by my to-do list, always busy but never making real progress. Then I found a stupid-simple practice that fixed it.

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May 2025 — What I've Been Up To

Two months of GoReview, BINGO projects, SOP building, and classic shiny object syndrome. An honest update.

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Why I Pause on the Networking Game

I used to be that person at every business mixer with name cards ready. Then I asked myself an uncomfortable question: what value am I actually giving back?

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The Power of Saying No — Warren Buffett's Rule of 25

I had a to-do list longer than my arm. Everything seemed urgent. Then I stumbled on Warren Buffett's Rule of 25, and it hit me like a bucket of cold water.